When You want to use the mantra, You will need to give the person some thing to take in. This item has to be bound [abhimintrit] by this mantra by holding a thing edible and chanting the mantra. ॐ खां ग्‍याम ग्‍याह महुम पति/पत्निं वश्यम् कुरुह कुरु स्वाहा: This Mohini https://www.instagram.com/tantramantraaurvigyaan/